How to Tell If a Guy Likes Me: Asian Special

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Now, i'm here again as someone who became totally a Gaijin to her native land, I almost forgot how to speak Nihongo and write 3 forms of Japanese characters, as of now, my Nihongo ability is still poor , but im studying hard to recall those words which were buried in my hypocampus very long time ago. She didnt pull away. They Tease You Did you have any experience that one of your male classmates was teasing you in school? Other product and company names shown may be trademarks of their respective owners.

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How to Tell If a Guy Likes Me: Asian Special

Sorry if this issue has been addressed in previous posts, but I couldn't find anything after a quick search. Anyways, for the past few months I've been hanging out with a Japanese girl in Tokyo. We originally started meeting for language exchange so no formal dates or anything but I think we really click: lots of common interests, great conversations, and we've been meeting more frequently. It's hard to grasp how Japanese actually feel about many things hence this question but I get the sense that we genuinely enjoy each other's company. But she hasn't really reciprocated the name-calling and touching, which for me are important methods of flirting. Is there any reliable way for me to gauge her interest? Also, should I be doing anything in particular to express my interest? I'm wary of being overly aggressive and want to make sure I'm being respectful. I also don't know any of her friends so I can't go the 3rd party route. If it's important, we're both 23 and working full-time jobs. We usually meet up on weekends and around once a week after work. Any advice, tips, or anecdotes would be welcome. Thanks for the feedback! EDIT: Can I also assume she doesn't have a boyfriend if she hasn't mentioned one after a few months? Not sure if this is information they'd withhold or not... The best thing to do would to be to ask if she wants to like, go out on a date. I never found Japanese girls any harder to gauge than Western girls. Most of them didn't want to go out with me, and when a girl did, her body language was totally different. They give off signs. Wanting to hang out more, finding you quite funny,and just being there. And the heavy eye contact that doesn't get awkward... But I can say, the girls I was with here, there wasn't really any confusion at the time. Really, I know it sounds like a hassle, or awkward, but it's a pretty clear way to do it if you don't want to risk the friendship by just trying to kiss her at the end of the night... Sorry if this issue has been addressed in previous posts, but I couldn't find anything after a quick search. Anyways, for the past few months I've been hanging out with a Japanese girl in Tokyo. We originally started meeting for language exchange so no formal dates or anything but I think we really click: lots of common interests, great conversations, and we've been meeting more frequently. It's hard to grasp how Japanese actually feel about many things hence this question but I get the sense that we genuinely enjoy each other's company. But she hasn't really reciprocated the name-calling and touching, which for me are important methods of flirting. Is there any reliable way for me to gauge her interest? Also, should I be doing anything in particular to express my interest? I'm wary of being overly aggressive and want to make sure I'm being respectful. I also don't know any of her friends so I can't go the 3rd party route. If it's important, we're both 23 and working full-time jobs. We usually meet up on weekends and around once a week after work. Any advice, tips, or anecdotes would be welcome. Thanks for the feedback! EDIT: Can I also assume she doesn't have a boyfriend if she hasn't mentioned one after a few months? Not sure if this is information they'd withhold or not... The best thing to do would to be to ask if she wants to like, go out on a date. I never found Japanese girls any harder to gauge than Western girls. Most of them didn't want to go out with me, and when a girl did, her body language was totally different. They give off signs. Wanting to hang out more, finding you quite funny,and just being there. And the heavy eye contact that doesn't get awkward... But I can say, the girls I was with here, there wasn't really any confusion at the time. Really, I know it sounds like a hassle, or awkward, but it's a pretty clear way to do it if you don't want to risk the friendship by just trying to kiss her at the end of the night... In both cases, girls who like you are just right there in front of you. I've been invited out by Japanese girls more than by Western, to be honest, but in all cases I had to make the first official move. I'm not so big on dating stereotypes, since few of the women I've known in Japan were like the stereotypes floated around on the Internet at all. Wait until you get to a busy intersection, and just take her hand as you start to cross. When you get to the other side, don't let go. She'll think you're being gallant and gentlemanly watching out for her safety crossing the street. If she resists it at the start, she ain't interested. If she lets you see her across the street but pulls away at the other side, she still ain't interested, but your stock went up anyway. If she doesn't pull away at the other side, she is either at least open to furthering the relation or already thought you two were dating and was wondering when you were going to get a clue. Wait until you get to a busy intersection, and just take her hand as you start to cross. When you get to the other side, don't let go. She'll think you're being gallant and gentlemanly watching out for her safety crossing the street. If she resists it at the start, she ain't interested. If she lets you see her across the street but pulls away at the other side, she still ain't interested, but your stock went up anyway. If she doesn't pull away at the other side, she is either at least open to furthering the relation or already thought you two were dating and was wondering when you were going to get a clue. It is borderline genius is what it is. She's unlikely to reject his hand at the outset and, going along with the polite fiction of looking after her safety, the first opportunity she has to gracefully drop the grasp is all the way across the street. The ten or fifteen seconds that it takes to get across is ample time for her to get get used to it and maybe decide she hopes he doesn't let go at the other side. She can still choose to drop the grasp at the other side, with no embarrassment caused to or incurred by either party, and the ploy can be used again at subsequent crossings. Or if she decides she likes it and him she can just quietly let the grasp continue as they go on down the sidewalk..... If he is indeed inflicted with sweaty palms and puts gloves on before the holding of hands, will she think that she is somehow unhygienic in his eyes! We have also not yet asked the important question of whether they both have two hands! There are plenty of pretty one armed women in Japan, but if she is one of them we may need to tweak the plan. If he is indeed inflicted with sweaty palms and puts gloves on before the holding of hands, will she think that she is somehow unhygienic in his eyes! We have also not yet asked the important question of whether they both have two hands! There are plenty of pretty one armed women in Japan, but if she is one of them we may need to tweak the plan. Thankfully both of us have been blessed with a healthy set of hands. Come to think of it, I had the perfect chance to try it out last Saturday. She is a bit shy, though. Will be interesting to see how she reacts. I'm sure you bunch have plenty of success stories. Like I said, she's a bit shy so something subtle yet direct would probably be best. You've been seeing her for months, with increasing frequency, she doesn't seem repulsed by you touching her arm.... You don't need some declaration of her feelings toward you in order to decide if you should ask her to date you. The holding hands at the crossing and then not letting go will just serve to confirm it for you. You don't need techniques or lines. She meets you repeatedly. She enjoys your company. The fish is on the hook and wondering why you aren't doing any reeling. So take her by the hand and squire her across a nice wide street already. You've GOT a girlfriend, so ACT like it. Wait until you get to a busy intersection, and just take her hand as you start to cross. When you get to the other side, don't let go. She'll think you're being gallant and gentlemanly watching out for her safety crossing the street. If she resists it at the start, she ain't interested. If she lets you see her across the street but pulls away at the other side, she still ain't interested, but your stock went up anyway. If she doesn't pull away at the other side, she is either at least open to furthering the relation or already thought you two were dating and was wondering when you were going to get a clue. Thankfully both of us have been blessed with a healthy set of hands. Come to think of it, I had the perfect chance to try it out last Saturday. She is a bit shy, though. Will be interesting to see how she reacts. I'm sure you bunch have plenty of success stories. Like I said, she's a bit shy so something subtle yet direct would probably be best. Wait until you get to a busy intersection, and just take her hand as you start to cross. When you get to the other side, don't let go. She'll think you're being gallant and gentlemanly watching out for her safety crossing the street. If she resists it at the start, she ain't interested. If she lets you see her across the street but pulls away at the other side, she still ain't interested, but your stock went up anyway. If she doesn't pull away at the other side, she is either at least open to furthering the relation or already thought you two were dating and was wondering when you were going to get a clue. Did something similar last night. A bicycke was passing on a narrow road from behind and i grabbed her by the waist and pulled her quickly toward me face to face. The bike was an excuse. Before that when we were drinking i let our knees touch. Later that night while while sitting outside drinking i told her how nice she smeled. She says really i cant tell. Then i said im not sure what it is maybe you hair. Then i nuzzled my face near her ear to get a better smell and whisoered in her ear yah your hair smells nice. She didnt pull away. Ergi i know she likes me a little bit at least. Later while walking home i just grabbed her hand and she leaned in. Obvious Click to expand... No but ive played a similar character on tv. Update the girl was very touchy but now refers to me as nomutomodachi. This is bad but im glad shewas more direct. Ill still try because its only the 2nd date tonight so maybe i move from nomutomodachi. Shes a strange bird but i like it that way.

On of the biggest signs that a guy is interesting in you and doesn't just want to sleep with you is that he is exposing the palms of his hands in your direction, or alternatively, when talking to you he rests an ring in the palm of one hand while holding out his other hand, palm up. We were just standing in line near each other, nothing more. Outside work, he tried to be near me, or speak with me. I want to take your sickness away and I will be jesus for you. Don't take it seriously pleaseeeeeeeeeee Have some sense of humor!!!!!. Are you aware that most Japanese men have experiences paying for sex. You want to make sure you demonstrate to your date that you do not fall in to the opinion of Western women they may have. The greatest advice to getting a guy is: BE YOURSELF. Statistics Author Google Analytics This is used to provide traffic data and reports to the authors of articles on the HubPages Service.